when i first came here, i came months into the future of what my best friend had lived through i didn't tell him about what had happened because it would hurt him knowing what did happen he ended up finding out through someone else but that's - not really the point huh
maybe he's got a good reason to keep it to himself
or he just needs adjusting to the city a bit ?
you said you guys don't get along anyway having a convo might be a weird thing to do
And I would say you’re right, if not for the fact that he’s already told me, in wide swaths of generalities, what will happen in the future. It is the smaller details that he refuses to share.
In which case, one must ask what’s the point? Either you share all or you share nothing — you do not act so inconsiderate as to harrow someone’s mind with questions and endless “what if’s”.
It’s thoughtless of him, but only to be expected at this point.
it sounds to me like you're setting yourself up for failure already
have you tried buttering him up? maybe don't try to say nice things if you'd never do that lol from the sounds of it but you like poetry isn't there something your bro likes?
[gladio likes a good, gourmet cup noodle, ignis likes sharp knives, iris has a thing for patterned shirts, and even cindy would soften her financial-shark brain when presented with vintage, luxury car goods.]
I appreciate the attempt, but it'll take more than pizza and a female server to close the distance between us. I'd rather you not worry about it for my sake.
well, yeah... hopefully you'll find a way to get through to him if you ever need a sounding board some other time, i have two ears and the internet glued to my brain
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Or to spite me.
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i didn't tell him about what had happened because it would hurt him knowing what did happen
he ended up finding out through someone else but that's - not really the point huh
maybe he's got a good reason to keep it to himself
or he just needs adjusting to the city a bit ?
you said you guys don't get along anyway
having a convo might be a weird thing to do
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In which case, one must ask what’s the point? Either you share all or you share nothing — you do not act so inconsiderate as to harrow someone’s mind with questions and endless “what if’s”.
It’s thoughtless of him, but only to be expected at this point.
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[he thinks?? he doesn't know this dante guy enough to make any judgement on him, other than from what v has told him.]
if he's really as thoughtless as you say he is
why not ask him more specific questions?
you're good at guiding a conversation like that
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You mean with the assumption that he'll not just ignore my questions to begin with?
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have you tried buttering him up? maybe don't try to say nice things if you'd never do that lol from the sounds of it
but you like poetry
isn't there something your bro likes?
[gladio likes a good, gourmet cup noodle, ignis likes sharp knives, iris has a thing for patterned shirts, and even cindy would soften her financial-shark brain when presented with vintage, luxury car goods.]
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Pizza.
[pIZZA........crickets
uuuuuhhhhhh (they're very close, can't you tell)]
Guns. Women. Loud music.
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[sounds like quite the character]
i guess you could... buy him a pizza? and hope that the server is a lady??
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I appreciate the attempt, but it'll take more than pizza and a female server to close the distance between us. I'd rather you not worry about it for my sake.
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if you ever need a sounding board some other time, i have two ears and the internet glued to my brain
in any case! good luck with your bro